new phase of life marriage

Hello all today I must be sharing life after marriage . Being a new member to joint family after getting married is a challenging task.
Rituals 
The first thing after getting married is following and performing the rituals for the new family which now yours.sometimes they are different from our family and in some families some families people are orthodox  so they are always in a chance to turn you down.
Expectations 
You are required  to he a sansankaari  bahu
It doesn't  matter that family is broad minded or narrow but they always want a bahu to be sanskaari.
Specifically a mother in law who is there she will always be commenting "hamare zamane mai to bahu aise nahi karti thi" . You are always required to follow her instructions from the day one.
Nervousness 
Being new makes you nervous because you want to create an good impression and you are always worried if I do the given work wrong I will loose my image on day one.
Relationships 
Now your are going to have many new roles 
Being a chachi,mami,bahu,biwi,bhabhi.
And you are required to fulfill the all rules perfectly. Specially the new relation of being a wife with love and care.

               
              

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