Mentalmom

Hello all today I must be sharing life after marriage . Being a new member to joint family after getting married is a challenging task. Rituals  The first thing after getting married is following and performing the rituals for the new family which now yours.sometimes they are different from our family and in some families some families people are orthodox  so they are always in a chance to turn you down. Expectations  You are required  to he a sansankaari  bahu It doesn't  matter that family is broad minded or narrow but they always want a bahu to be sanskaari. Specifically a mother in law who is there she will always be commenting " hamare zamane mai to bahu aise nahi karti thi" .  You are always required to follow her instructions from the day one. Nervousness  Being new makes you nervous because you want to create an good impression and you are always worried if I do the given work wrong I will loose my image on day one. Relationship

I have a 18 month old daughter after 6 - 8 months she will be going to school but question here is will she be safe there.  Recently I saw a case where very small kids not only girls but boys to suffer sexual assault . How can a person can perform an act of sexuality with a child who is 2 years old or 2.5 years .They are so sensitive and small new go the world they are learning phase they didn't even know by showing them chocolates or riya how the hell people take advantage of them. In today's era child safety is a major concern  for parents it's not just that only unknown people perform this bad act but also known people family ,friends its easy for them to perform because  of family trust them. I saw a case where a 5 year old daughter has personal  tutor at home he use to come there for teaching herdoor is closed  while she is studying and tutor use to offer him chocolates. Family also liked him because the kid was studying but after some time slowly he started touching t

Breast feeding is all about a mommy and baby thing.only these two get related to it and baby is major concern during this procedures. Breast feeding differs in all momand child because it has various factors which goes around. Duration: -   It totally depends on the baby how much hungry he is and how many times a day does he need the feed. Initially there frequent  feeds but by the times the duration increase as the baby grows and does the hunger.  Position:- Your baby comfort the way he is comfortable with you .while he likes crossover hold,football hold,side lying position ,cradle hold,laid back or any other position the main concern is to satisfy  the babies  need. Hunger :-   How much milk a baby is required to satisfy is hunger.how many times does a day will he require . The only source initially is moms feed that the baby is required . Beneficial:-   Feeding is beneficial  for both baby and mother it helps the mother to loose the extra pounds she  got during  pregnancy and the ba

Hello Moms                           I m a mom and I know motherhood is all about nuturing a kid but a mother  has to go through a lot of trouble during all this no mother is perfect and no child rather.  But the thing which is perfect is motherhood you learn a lot many things In this journey. As a mother daily I come across different  challenges children are new to this world and their curiosity too we need to answer their questions and that's enough for them and while a kid is growing your Journey being a mother is also increasing ur experiences are also increasing .